If I'm being honest, I probably have videos of about four of my exes engaged in different levels of sexual activity.

I can assure you they all know and don't mind.

But in order to understand that you would have to understand the dynamic and we don't need to go into that here.

I don't delete them because well it would take forever to find them, also I look pretty damn good in them, and furthermore I wouldn't deny having them and almost every time there existence becomes known, the current girlfriend gets, the best I can describe as a good jealous and we have fun and create some of our own.

That took a hard left turn but let me say this, he doesn't have them because he wants them back or that they even mean anything to him, or anything like that.

Sexual intercourse, and moments you share with someone else are what they are. Did you throw away all your prom pictures from your high school boyfriend? Destroy all the pictures you ever took with another guy?

I guess what I'm saying is if you remove the sexual part, what's the difference? You seem very calm and level headed about it and he probably doesn't even realize they are there. I don't until I get asked, or it comes up, and then I'm like oh yeah want to see?

All right let the Flaming begin