My [29M] GF [25F], 3yrs, just doesn't seem to be interested in sex anymore. We've talked a lot about it. Promises made. Nothing changes.

What is her communication with you? Does she ever say anything sexual to you?

More of my thoughts.... The problem with my ex was the way he talked to me every day about every thing else, just didnt mesh. Also, his penis was a problem, it was average. I didn't realize that was a factor though until I exited out of that relationship and into my current one, then it was clear. Also HATED when he hassled me about sex. Didn't want to hear that he wanted it and it's been so long, blah blah blah. My current never says anything, no guilt if we go a week. I dont think I have ever heard him question our sex frequency ever. But he can do that because we have no problems in that area.

Man I really love him. And my ex is a great guy too, but we just do.not.click. I feel like such a bitch when I use him as a negative example.

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