My bf is a huge perv. What do i do?

Look at all the pitchforks and people ready to riot. All of you should also march to National Geographic HQ and hold up signs and protest and the “child pornographers” that take pictures of tribes who wear less clothing than we do here.

This guy has a fetish, plain and simple. No different than people who have a foot fetish, earlobe fetish, or even an armpit fetish. There are also guys who have a fetish about growing breasts or breast enlargement fetish, pregnancy fetish, I bet there is even a fish fetish, dolphin fetish. You name it... there is likely a fetish.

You can choose to confront him. You can choose to accept him as he is. You can try to pressure him into therapy. You can leave him. You can live a completely sterile life. You can find a boyfriend who is dead inside and has zero fetishes. Or even one who never ever thinks about sex, they do exist.

I do not condone child abuse or anything related to pedophiles but in your case, his “strange” obsession does not mean (regardless of the idiotic replies above or below) he needs a straight jacket or as some on this thread prefer burned at the stake or perhaps many of you would love to see him locked up forever with only a wall to stare at, maybe a thousand other ways to torture and maim him... yeah nothing wrong with those replies at all.

And of course, you will see the stereotypical “Leave Him!!!” which you will find in nearly every single post in this forum because deep down most of these fuckers giving you “advice” have zero training, zero idea of how to maintain any sense of a healthy relationship and are actually the LAST people you’d need “advice” from.

Make up your own mind on what to do. Deep down you already have decided. Act on it.

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