So you do realize that feminism does address this and it’s part of what I’m talking about?

I am talking about the culture of power that excuses its bad behaviour at the expense of its victims. Specifically, the excuses for pedophilia that are being used by Republicans to excuse their support of Roy Moore. But it also applies to

To your point, Oklahoma formerly had a law on the books that set the legal age for women at 18 and men at 21 due to the perception that men were not mature enough to drink at that age. RBG helped bring this case to the Supreme Court when she worked for the ACLU and won. (Great episode of More Perfect with a great examination of the case: http://www.wnyc.org/story/sex-appeal/ ) This crap hurts everyone but the people in power who perpetrate it.