My new assistant manager is gay and he plays all sexual with only me

Oh god, that's terrible. Don't just stand by and let this happen.

I'm bi but haven't told anybody but one friend, and that friend lives 10 hours away.

Somebody I know sort of does shit like that, he says he's straight, he says he's totally joking, talks about girls with me (and seems very straight when doing so) but I still suspect.. something. First of all, I've seen him check out guys before. I've also seen him check out girls (this occurs more often). He constantly says that I'm so cute, calls me babe, we make jokes back and forth about fucking, he has "jokingly" held my hand before, has "jokingly" slapped my ass before, has "jokingly" gone in to kiss me on the cheek but stopped.. It doesn't really bother me because I honestly kind of like it and find it entertaining, but I just am not convinced he's straight and am very confused by it.

One time we were talking about girls and he asked if there's any I'm interested in, he goes "Wait you aren't gay right??", I said "No" (technically I'm not full fledged gay, and I also don't really even want people knowing that I'm bi right now) and he's like "Okay, good. That would make me feel super weird about all this joking around I've done over the years. I mean I'd still be your friend but I wouldn't joke around with you anymore". Gee thanks. But I still doubt you're even straight.

That's just my little experience.

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