I need help because I feel like I'm being lured into TRP

Warning: I could be biased or negative somewhat in this post since I'm quite depressed today, but yeah.

Imo, intimate interaction with the opposite sex (dating, relationships etc.) is a brutally unfair game. It can be great when it's good, but most of the time it isn't, and analyzed from an outside perspective it seems to be, in general, difficult and very unfair.

Example: I have a cousin who has Aspergers. He is the nicest person I have ever met and everyone agrees. He has many friends because of this reason - he is just unbelievably kind. However, no girl has ever wanted to put up with him as a result of his lack of social ability and general unattractiveness. It's always really frustrated me how terrible guys and gals that I know are so successful in dating but everyone has ignored such a wonderful person.

As I said, it's unfair, but it's unfair for men and women alike. Most people are shallow and only care about outer beauty and social ability when they are looking for a partner, and not much or at all about how beautiful a person is inside. Guys and girls alike do that. And to be honest, I'm guilty of the same.

The thing is, TRP doesn't fix this. All it does is teach you a few techniques (that mostly don't work) to go use on girls who are insecure and vulnerable, so you can ruin their life for your own short term gains. It also teaches you to blame YOUR problems on women.

Instead, what I would suggest is this:

First, realize that the game IS rigged, and it IS unfair, but not against MEN specifically. It's rigged against good people, because how good of a person you are doesn't mean much in relationships, and everyone who says that it does is lying to you.

Second, every negative thought you have about women can probably apply to men as well, plus some. I used to dislike men cause of my own experiences. But there are good and bad people of every gender, every race, every religion. Generalizations don't help at all.

Third, jealousy is natural. You desire to be in a relationship, nearly everyone does. And it's normal to feel jealous. But you are not running out of time, it will happen for you too one day.

If it's REALLY bothering you, focus on developing your social skills and attractiveness (workout, dress better, go out more etc.) But the best way I've found to find a partner is to find someone with similar hobbies and interests. My bf and I met in church.

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