I'm actually not averse to the idea of doing friend stuff. I would be more than happy to spend time with him that didn't involve sex, because I do like him as a person - that's what attracted me to him in the first place. So I've not got any intentions of saying no to the idea, in fact I've been spending time today thinking about things we could do together.

I was only asking the question because I was curious to know if actually wanting to do stuff that didn't involve sex was normal in AP relationships, because in every previous AP relationship I've had, sex was always, always involved every time I saw them. The idea of wanting to do stuff not involving sex actually makes me very happy with him.