Top mod here, guess my new duties involve following this person around and explaining what actually happened.
Here is the thread where this was discussed in the most transparent way possible.
Long story short, this person was banned for telling people to kill themselves. In appeal, she called us nazis in the mod mail. This is the misgendering and harassing in question, take note that it starts with "shut up nazi" and is just a colloquial "dude" much like this person used in our private conversations, yet it's a big deal when somebody else does it. Me telling this person they have serious anger issues that they need to address me somehow me gaslighting them, when their entire post history is dedicated to them being mean to strangers who disagree with them.
