I really don't think you should get srs until after you lose your virginity. Your reaction and connection to your body can change over time. You don't need to make a binary shift in your physiology to complete yourself. Even though it seems like that's the way, as your body changes from hrt and you begin to grow more comfortable in your body, you may start to feel differently about your sex organs. Maybe you're more gender fluid, that you'd feel better if society let your float freely between the sexes and present hoe you feel that day. It's easy to drink the kool-aid and find solace in the idea that you'll get this surgical procedure and you'll be magically better.

There's a lot of pressure in the trans community to go full board and present fully femme and get the equipment to match. Let the down vote commencement begin, but every person I've known to get srs, under 40, has either totally fallen off the map or regretted it. You don't need to penetrate a vagina, or any orifice you don't like. You don't need to have sex this way or that and there's more ways of experiencing your body than in a binary fashion. I use to think srs would be the only way to save me from suicide, but after getting an orchi, I feel totally fine downstairs (and I get better gas mileage to boot). I use to think that a vagina would be optimal, it would let me have the sex I want and I wouldn't have to deal with an organ I wanted nothing to do with. You're losing a lot of sensitive material in srs and I've never known anyone who could orgasm after surgery. I lied, I knew one and her arms looked like spiral ham on Christmas day. You can learn to receive pleasure in new ways, from receiving penetration, nipple play, etc. After my orchi, my orgasms have changed totally. They're not nearly as strong, but last slightly longer, but I can rebound much-much faster.

Also,every tgirl I know wants the futa-surgery, but that's not happening in our near future. Get laid, explore your body and don't hate on yourself if you happen to like getting your organ handled. I use to have immense guilt about my body and it wasn't until I found truly loving partners who let me explore them and myself that I worked through the psyche that blocked me from enjoying myself. There's a whole world of bodily pleasure that you can't quite imagine yet! Explore first and then make an informed decision.