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Had a talk with my wife today and she told me she didn't care if I wanted to sleep around.
Some background information. We've been married 5 years. We have a happy marriage overall. We have one daughter. The main issue in our marriage has been really shitty timing health wise. When we both started dating, we were both out of shape. I had a generic dad bod. She's always been overweight.
Anyways, I got diagnosed with Low Testosterone by my primary 2 years ago and got placed on TRT. I decided after that that I needed to get my shit together. I've been counting my calories and lifting weights since then.. I've also done 3 Test only blasts. Without meaning to sound vain, I look bigger, leaner, and overall better than the majority of the general population at this point. My Libido is also significantly higher.
Meanwhile, My wife's health got destroyed after going through pregnancy. She became permanently diabetic, has a ton of joint issues, etc. She got diagnosed with Thyroid cancer and had to get it removed. Her HRT for that seems to be incredibly unsteady/unpredictable and she has even more issues with her energy level from it. It has also lessened her sex drive by a ton. I've put up with this for quite a while.
Lifestyle wise, I'm the primary provider. I pay all the bills. I'm not rich but I'm comfortable and have a decent amount of disposable income per paycheck. She's a stay a home mom(what she wanted). I only work 3 days a week(Healthcare).
We finally had a conversation today and she told me that she's fine with it if I want to sleep around on the side and that she doesn't care as long as I don't prioritize it over her and my kid(time wise). She said "You work hard providing for us. If you want to go out and have some fun like that occasionally, I'm fine with it. I just don't really want to hear any details about it.". I asked her some questions and she confirmed that she was being serious and genuine.
Did I hit the jackpot? Is this a trap? Is it a good idea? I'd like to hear some of your guy's opinions and advice about this.