first be clear what you want?

1. It's not about how you look. its about how you carry yourself and present yourself. My male friends click such gross pictures and upload on bumble, that I would have swiped them left. And whats up with guitar pic/pet pics. Though pet pics work for me..:P Pets are so cute.
2. Then the bios are shitty. Not one sensible thing. Writing non sense philosophy and what you like. I mean seriously you just travel/bike ride/ go to mountains/ drink beer ? is that it to your life? Show your fun interesting side, crack a joke.
3. Once you get a swipe, go beyond hello/hey/hi. Women/ me at least like decent flirting. We are on dating site for Cupid's sake! Make first line interesting. Go with your natural talent here, because fake wont last long.
4. Do not swing from who's in your family to lets sleep tonight spectrum in 10 seconds. Either pick a side and stay true to it. or best stay in middle of the spectrum.
5. Do not call/msg only after 10 p.m. unless she asked you to do that. And if you are into sexting/phone sex, make your expectations clear sooner. She will appreciate honesty. Don't bullshit to be going with the flow. We all know what flows when and where!
6. Talk/communicate/propose a date of her interest asap. Don't let it die down. Propose in a way she can not refuse. Telegram/instagram anywhere, make an effort. Yes men need to make an effort more initially, because thanks to your other stupid brothers we don't trust you enough!
7. Understand boundaries, consent, stick to it. Protest yours and respect hers.
8. All of you who want whatever in other person make sure you yourself have plenty of it. I met few guys who were plain boring and in their comfort zone expecting to meet 'khatron ki khiladi'.
9. if you intend to marry, try conventional marriage apps. My ex bf found his wife there.

Disclaimer- 1. I can help you with the pictures you should put. Done that with many friends and all have decent swipes later. :P You can ask help from any of your female friends(If you dnt have one invest in making one. She will teach you plenty things.) 2. I just wanted to put it out in case it helps any of you. I understand douchebags are gender neutral!