I escaped my abusive Husband in March. And I do mean escaped. He hacked my computers, stole my pets, cleaned tens of thousands of dollars from checking, took over my accounts online, stole my records, and many many other things. I have had to call the police about 10 times while I was with him. I was physically very ill. He would ALWAYS meet the cops outside and tell them I was mentally ill (which I am not) and many times the cops would be aggresive, incredibly so, pushing me, saying things like "Your husband has the right to threatened to kill (she laughed) so next time (she laughed) wait for him to have a gun or knife in his hand and is coming at you before you call us (she laughed hard)". And this was in front of many other officers. My husband has NPD, he is the one with issues. Then in April, he wasnt supposed to be at the house. I went in to get something, he had the doors barricaded from the inside, all the blinds drawn, and attacked me, threw me into walls several times, crushed my hand on a door knob, tried to burn me with a cigarette, and pushed me all around. I got free and he called the police and told them I assaulted HIM! I was taken from my home in handcuffs, in front of my neighbors of a decade, taken to jail, booked, and put into leg irons and charged with assault sec degree. My name was put in the paper with the charges so they are on line and in print. He filed bogus statements and requested an order of protection, then went and got into my vehicle and stole my belongings from my purse and legal documents, that the cops MADE me leave in my truck.

Now, I filed counter charges but the cops LITERALLY laughed in my face. It was a joke. I got the charges dismissed but nothing I will do will remove my name and the charges from online. And no one stopped his cyber stalking, stalking, theft, lies, attacks and harassment. So, I dont know what to tell you. There is an article in Forbes back in 2012 about how people fake these things to hurt the SO. Good luck!