This annoys the shit out of me. I've been mocked for being a man and also a carer (I had to sacrifice my career because two family members got very sick at the same time and only I was willing to help them, I had to move in with one of them or she'll literally get hurt) people have called it "creepy" and "weird" that I care for my mom. Yet I've seen these same fucks sharing videos that you described here calling them sweet or selfless and saying shit like "if everyone was like this the world would be a better place." Meanwhile when they see someone doing it for real in real life that isn't asking for attention or thanks their reaction is "EW!" I've come to the conclusion that 99% of people only do the right thing when they think people are watching.

I'm not sure if it's that I'm a guy or that they just feel sickened by real life difficult situations because I know a female carer and she said she never experiences any negativity.

Back on topic since I'm being a self indulgent ass, the videos that initially pissed me off were the "I GAVE A HOMELESS MAN $100 SEE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT!" ones. Oh, so you would've done that without the $10,000 ad revenue would you? I wrote similar comments, "do it without a camera" and people were responding with "what do you mean?" I give up. I feel like I've been a grumpy old man since age 10.