I was at my boyfriends place and he asked me to put his laundry in the machine while he was sleeping (he sleeps all day). I went to the machine but there were some clothes in the dryer already and they felt a little moist so I went upstairs to ask him and he told me everything is fine and to put it all in the dryer. I asked him two times if he was sure (because he freaks out about things like this) and he told me it was fine. Later he went to ask his dad if those clothes were clean and he said no and my boyfriend (32)told his dad that I mixed them and I hear his dad calling me an idiot (not in a playful way, his dad is a very mean man). This was one of the final straws that led me to break up with the guy, I always felt like cinderella but I never dared to refuse doing his housework because I was a guest (against my wishes, we were together for six years and he didnt want to live on his own so always pushed me to go to his place)