Thank you very much
I guarantee that I was to nice and they took advantage of that
Her are some reasons I believe she had BPD
The mother told me she was just like her when she was younger
Her mother told me that at one time she didn't speak to her husband for about 6 months while living together
The husband told me she doesn't have sex with him because she claims she is weak when she is intimate
Her mom has a yin yang tattoo on her wrist and she told me it represents the middle between black and white
The daughter has a dragon tattoo to remind her she is strong
She also wants to get a Phoenix tattoo which I understand through some research that it's a pretty big BPD symbol
They also have the same matching tattoo on their wrists to symbol a bond that can not be broken
The daughter went through courts to decide what parents gets custody of the her when she was very young
If the mother displays borderline traits than I assume the daughter will end up the same way if she was raised by her
I seen the mother try to talk the daughter out of going to see her biological father when she was worried about him
The mother told that her daughter Thinks in black and white Projects Scapegoats Has crazy anger management problems
The reason why we didn't have sex was because supposedly it hurt her I understand BPDs are afraid of intimacy
She told me in the beginning she is into pain I'm assuming she is to into bdsm She absolutely loved the 50 shades of grey books and told me it actually made her horny
She also claimed she had a doninatrix costume
She told me she pushed all her past boyfriends away
Kind of lied about them
She was 19 when I meet her and she claimed a boyfriend from 3 years ago was to controlling with how much she drinks She was 16 and why drink at that age so obviously a lie
She treats her dad exactly the same way that she treated me
She claimed she doesn't have a lot of girl friends because they all back stab her
She was super jealous of anything
My clothes are to fitting If I took my nicer car to the gym If I watched a movie with girls in it
Always told me to go fuck any of my good looking friends
From her Facebook pictures She went through many phases
She told me she would hurt me
She hopes she doesn't end up the same way as her mom does
She claims she will kill herself of her mom dies
One day we were worried she was pregnant and she literally looked like she was going to jump down the stairs
She said if she is pregnant she will kill herself
That she doesn't want to bring a baby into this cruel world
She was in a psych ward Claimed she was diagnosed with only general anxiety and that she has body dysmorphia
She claimed that she wanted the voices in her head to go away so she overdosed on pills
She always said she was a bad person
When we did have sex She only wanted to to have it with out a condom
She said she likes it better bare and more riskier
She was always on birth control
I guess it was a impulse
Once sex stopped I always asked her does she still feel the same way
She told me she does
She told me she wants to make love to me but she can't
After about 6 months of dating her
She was supposedly a huge flirt I never witnessed it but many people told me this Basically everyone claimed she was a attention whore
Both of them spend crazy money only to later return most of the thing Possible impulse ?
There was so many red flags but I didn't think of them
This was my first serious relationship past age 18
I thought she just was constantly pms ing fir to her birth control
Her best friend supposedly back stabbed her and there really was no good explanation as to why
Now after we broke up they are like best friends again