What are some things that they said when getting to know them, that while looking back were pretty clear signs of BPD?

Florida, USA! He lost custody for one child w/ his ex wife for adultery involving the other BM, according to him he didn’t cheat & timing was off and never new about BM having a baby until his wedding day. BM took away custody from him after she was engaged 2 years ago, which was called off after an abuse situation with fiancee & now grandparents have custody over the second child. Messy situation, super messy.

Within the last couple hours after my comment, I discovered he posted my phone number on Facebook to accuse me of things. I don’t know if it was taken down since his mother addressed it. I think I’m done for good. Fun while it lasted.

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