I have problems, but when I talk about them I feel like 'that guy'.

Bones50 appears to be a special (as in short bus) kind of misogynist asshole. Here's some other gems from his posting history:


Here's the thing. You cannot live your life by a woman's feelings. A woman's mood/feelings are all in flux. Making yourself a slave to her feelings is a losing game, because you actually have significant control over her feelings and mood. How? By being a ROCK. Her emotional storm breaks upon your rock. She sees the rock is unfazed, and calms. The rock makes her feel safe and secure again.


Second, repeat after me: bitches ain't shit. Seriously that's the attitude you need to succeed. You are better then them. If you don't act better then them, they won't be attracted to you. You won't ever know a woman's real love. The trick here is actually be better. More money, interesting Good body. You may not realize this, but the way people treat attractive people is hugely different from not attractive people. That's life.**


Ok, so it's important to cave and be weak in your relationship. Your friends are wrong. She wants weakness, you should always ask her what to do. They want someone that is easily manipulated and does what she says. She want's someone that is unworthy of basic respect. Women hate drama, and avoid it at all costs.

See how stupid that sounds?


It is important to assert yourself in your relationship. Your friends are not wrong. Here's the reason why it's so important to assert yourself with your girlfriend: She wants leadership. All women do. They want someone like their father, that they can look up to as their mate. If they cannot look up to you, they slowly grow resentful over time and it poisons the relationship beyond repair.

Being "Nice" is anything but nice for her/your relationship. You'd think women want a smooth ride, but honestly they love drama and if you can't handle it right it will consume the relationship.


Once she pop's out a kid or two, she'll have something to fill that time with.

I figure you should run big purchases by the wife, but otherwise no.


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