My ex was super against OF and looked down on strippers and sex work in general. I had a few friends that were strippers and it always bothered her (I think she thought those were the kind of girls I was into). We eventually broke up

About a year later I reached out and we went for drinks. She kept going on about how she was an exotic dancer now, and had an OF. I think she still thought I was attracted to that lifestyle. I’m not opposed to it but I could feel that it was a bit forced on her part.

We ended the night amicably and I did not reach out again. I feel bad for her bc she came from a very well off family, and did very well in school (dean’s list ect.). She dropped school and the support of her parents to pursue something I don’t think she was completely comfortable with nor enjoyed. She just had this weird idea in her head that I was into whatever lifestyle that is and fully jumped into it (although content was pretty vanilla, just nudes). But she dropped everything for OF, and I know she’s only making 50k or less.