Reddit's obessesion of "tough love".

Let's compare rape to this shall we?

What victims of rape and abuse have in common is that they're not given the benefit of the doubt by pieces of human garbage like yourself. Even when they reach out to those around them, they are often questioned whether they're sure that's what "really happened." And when they post online, their stories are seen as "outlandish" by over-privileged dipshits (read: you) who assume that nobody could have experienced something as bad as they're claiming, so they're obviously embellishing for attention. If you had known anyone who had Nparents in real life, you would understand how far outside of the scope of normal human behavior these people can go. I doubt anyone in your life has or would ever come forward to you with their stories, however, precisely because of your shitty, awful personality.

There is an difference between saying you were raped and getting your ps4 taken away.

And now you're comparing child abuse and neglect with "having one's ps4 taken away." Just because losing gaming privileges were the "struggles" you faced as a kid doesn't mean other people didn't go through worse. The fact that you would compare being the child of an Nparent with something so trivial tells me that you're unaware of the lengths people with NPD go to in order to hurt those around them. You're ignorant and vomiting your ignorance into your comments, and passing it off as reasonable skepticism and perspective. You're disgusting.

Never in my comment did I say that NPD is fake.

No, you just compared it to bullshit that barely appears outside of tumblr, trivializing NPD and abuse at at the hands of people with NPD.

Again, you lack the perspective and sense of proportion to even be commenting here.

Whatever bro. We could have had an nice discussion but I see you acted as the adult here.

Sorry for telling you to kill yourself. Let me say what I should have said:

Your smug disposition towards a safe space for people who want their stories to be heard and to receive support and advice without judgment is awful. You have put yourself in the position of an arbiter over "what abuse they actually probably suffered" in the same way that every reddit comment on a news story about rape plays detective over "but do we know it was a rape? Is there exaggeration? We're just asking questions." It's not that none of those stories are embellished, it's that your attitude to approach a community like that with the intention of judging them for exaggerating is awful and speaks to your privilege, your awful character, and your lack of empathy for people who grew up in worse circumstances than you did. It tells me that you have never had to seek the courage in yourself to tell the world of anything bad that ever happened to you. If you had, you would not be so callous and quick to jump to "taking what these supposed abuse victims say with a grain of salt." You should not kill yourself, but reflect long and hard over your total failure as a human being in this regard. You should discuss with a therapist why your default response is to judge people in a community for abuse victims for "exaggerating" and likening abuse to having a ps4 taken away. You should try to improve yourself, because the person you have revealed yourself to be in the comments you have made is totally lacking in the empathy, compassion, and awareness that makes anyone worthwhile in the first place. If you cannot find it within yourself to make strides on this front, then you should remove yourself from contact with other people, where your shitty, smug, awful disposition cannot impact others. If this involves killing yourself, then that is what you should do, but the main point is that the person you presently are is unacceptable.

"A playstation 4." God, you're pathetic.

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