I never said abuse/rape doesn't happen. There are stories on the subreddit where it basically brews down to-
Stop. They're posting in RBN. By doing so, they're communicating that their parents have NPD or are generally abusive, beyond the details laid out in their post.
Without any more context then what I wrote in one sentence.
Except for the context that they're posting in a safe space for abuse victims, you fucking moron.
I never went on that sub to call people out or anything. Being abused is bad. But what is abuse? Not getting allowance for a week? Not being allowed to get an car?
"Did I say rape was't bad? But y'know, what is rape, really? Is it having a beer before having sex? Is it being penetrated by a long-term partner while you're passed out? Does that reeeeally count?"
Said by the dude who wished somebody else to kill himself. Just call me MR.Kettle
"If you tell terrible people to kill themselves, you're just as bad as they are." smug
So what if I were to make an thread I automatically have been abused
You are automatically entitled to the benefit of the doubt, and to be believed that you're coming to a safe space for abuse victims because you have been through enough to deserve to be there. The point of such a space is to not have to justify to others that you were reeeeeeally abused like you would in court. Good god, you're fucking stupid to not get it by this point.
If I were to call TRP neck-beards I am suddenly what? Not doing the same but throughout the Internet? Or would you think twice about the whole situation.
"Calling a someone from a community of rapists 'neck-beards' is exactly the same thing as having abusive parents."
You keep talking about rape but I never said I didn't believe when somebody says something that big of an problem.
IT'S NOT YOUR PLACE TO BE DECIDING WHAT DOES AND DOES NOT QUALIFY AS "THAT BIG OF A PROBLEM."
I bet that you're the type of person who would interrogate someone "well, weren't you drinking that night? Are you suuuure it was that big a deal, and not just drunk sex?"
Saying you have been hit by an belt is something totally different then saying you have narc parents because they took your ipod.
They're not saying they have Nparents because they took their ipod, they are saying they have Nparents who have done other things that they don't owe it to YOU to list in detail so that YOU can deem them worthy of being there...who took their ipod. Jesus Christ, you are so fucking stupid, it's incredible to watch you miss the main point of this entire issue so blatantly even when it's spelled out for you so simply. It would be pitiable if you weren't so willfully and aggressively ignorant.