I will say, Luke does not think Rory is incapable. He's the "I love this person and want to help them and want to see them happy" type.

I've learned something about men. They feel very inadequate compared to woman, and men like to feel useful, so they do what they can. I learned this the hard way. I was in construction for 15 years, and we hane an employee who has been with us for long time. He would always try to help me, and I assumed he thought I was incapable. And then I finally realized he just wanted to help me so he could feel useful. I felt so bad, and started accepting his help, and he seemed a lot happier. I just think woman can be harsh on men, and it makes me sad sometimes.