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Select [Support Only] I saved myself until marriage after being a virgin for over 30 years of my life I have never had an orgasm. My husband cheated on me with his cousin. I am going to kill myself when he visits his grandparents.

DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE.

HE has the problem, not you. He cheated on you. He won't try to explore new ways to have sex. He won't even teach you what he likes. I think he's just looking for an excuse to cheat on you without the mess of divorce which leads me to this:

I don't know your situation well enough to say that you should get a divorce but he's obviously being really selfish and inconsiderate. So you haven't had experience with sex before him? Big deal. If he truly had a problem with this, he shouldn't have married you if this was going to be a big issue. What you need to do is focus on you being happy. DON'T END YOUR LIFE BECAUSE HE'S MESSED UP. He fucked his cousin. That right there is a red flag, no matter how great her sex is. She is a family member. Would you stay if he had sex with a parent or sibling? It's worse, yeah, but what he did is almost at that level. And he obviously doesn't want to have a healthy sexual relationship with you.

Find out what makes you orgasm. Sex is not everything but invest in a vibrator. The Hitachi Magic Wand works wonders on every woman I've known who's used it. Then, ask your husband to pleasure you. If he refuses, ask if he's alright with you sleeping with other people. Now, not that you would or anything, but to gauge his reaction. If he goes "Sure, whatever, don't care." he obviously isn't interested in you anymore. That would be enough for me to leave. If he goes "NO ABSOLUTELY NOT!" then explain how his cheating has effected you and how you won't stand for crap like that in your marriage.

Bottom line, do anything other than end your life. DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE! Leave, explore, sell all your shit and go teach in Japan or take a road trip with friends or look up an old flame. Whatever. Do what makes you happy. If this guy is in the way of your happiness, change it. DO NOT END YOUR LIFE FOR A LOSER!

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