Hello. I wonder if there are any psychologists, amateur or professional, or just someone with casual interest or experience, who can tell me what might be going on with a girl I just met.
It's only been three days. I was sitting in a café in London and this pretty, well-dressed girl starts smiling, flirting with her eyes, checking me out, and then asking me the time, and then more, until we're talking. She's 28 and old-school London 'posh'. She does seem odd - slightly mumbly, giggling a little to herself in the gaps - but odd has never really bothered me. In fact I find it interesting and, if I'm honest, sexy. So before she leaves, I get her number.
By the next day we're meeting up. She's staying in a hostel (has had some kind of row with her parents), so I know she wants to stay with me and that it accounts for part of her interest. But she does also like me - compliments my looks, tells me I'm lovely, holds my hand/arm as we walk (yes, a bit sudden, but not too weird really and, as I say, quite nice). It's the other stuff that's slightly unnerving.
I suppose they don't sound too strange in isolation, but when they're all happening together in one evening, it's pretty confusing. I've met the BDP type and clingy/stalking/harassing type before, and I don't think she's either. I quite like her, but:
Can anyone tell me what might be going on with her? Or, more importantly, am I/is she at risk of harm?
Thank you.