Here are answers in the best way I can communicate what works for me; bare in mind just because something works for me doesn't mean it'll work for you. 1. Just be nice to everyone you meet and be open to meeting new people, you never which connections will lead to something and which won't. Girl A might not be interested in you but if you see her one night and say hi you'll meet her friend Girl B who might be. This goes for guys too, you never know who will end up being a good friend, who will hook you up at parties and who you'll barley talk to. The only sure fire way is to just be open to meeting new people. 2. You absolutely have to get her number before the conversation ends, always be closing. Its actually a good way to gauge interest, if they don't give it to you it probably wasn't worth pursuing anyway. 3. This varies person to person but yes those are the accepted euphemisms for lets fuck; side note some people prefer the home field advantage but if you go to her place you can leave whenever you want and then the pressure is on her to be the host. 4. Just say hi to people, talk about nothing or whatever is going on at the moment and see if it goes anywhere. I've made a lot of connections at parties waiting for the bathroom by just complaining about the line. 5. Just be confident, you don't even really have to be confident just act like it and eventually you'll start to believe it. It might be odd at first going alone but that's how you meet new people if anyone confronts you just say you came with people but can't find them. If you ever go out drinking alone just don't go too crazy. 6. This is really different person to person, you've just got to find what works for you. Compliments are good but don't be nice about it if that makes sense. Saying nice dress! and hey that looks really good on you, have completely different meanings. Just try a bunch of things and see what works for you. 7. you can be sure if I had the secret for being wealthy I wouldn't be on reddit in the middle of the day. The last thing i'll say that really helped me is this. I'm an introvert by nature and I've herd a million times, as i'm sure you have, that girls love confidence. You don't actually have to be confident in order to project confidence. Just act confident, play the part, fake it til you make it and eventually the rest will come. Don't chase women, chase dreams and the women will follow.