42m here, was married 17 years, been dating for a couple of years now. Sadly I have to disagree. When I was young I was painfully shy around women and focused on my career. Now I'm alone and my career is in the bag, I'm wealthy and work very little. The only thing I really care about anymore in life is chasing women and having sex. I date 2 to 3 women a week and have sex with many of the women I meet. One surprising aspect of modern dating I've come to discover is that women no longer want serious relationships. They may say so, but my experience says otherwise. They mostly just date for a few months and move on to the next man. So, it's a good time to enjoy casual sex in the new era of dating where women have abandoned the concept of entering a relationship with men.