It has nothing to do with being right or wrong. Being born to a crackhead, diseased mother doesn't make for a very "fair" life. No amount of money can ever fix that. I will clap for the TED Talks given by people who survived growing up in that environment, but I'm not going to celebrate that environment. I'm not going to pretend that the exceptions aren't exceptions.

If a woman is so broken that she can't or won't get a simp to come whiteknight for her in person, then I don't want my tax or charity dollars going to her or the future criminals she makes.

I'm also not lonely. I'm married with children. This is how the rich actually view the poor. It's no accident that prior to the Republican religious war that every poor neighborhood had a local, well-funded Planned Parenthood.