I totally get this. And this is what I’m struggling with. And please don’t take this as me arguing with your advice! I really appreciate it. I would just like to talk about it a little more. Don’t you feel like he lied to me a little bit? “With enduring love,” seems quite intimate and from the looks of the email it seemed he sent it a month or so after they stopped talking. He asked her if she “ever built that airplane.” I was told she liked him and he didn’t like her back. I feel a bit cheated… I think the relationship will be unsuccessful if I have to carry this with me, constantly wondering if he lied or maybe there was a silly miscommunication. I do feel like I should tell him everything, including how that email made me feel, but I think I should be careful to not approach it maliciously or like I am confronting him. But you think I should keep it to myself?