I appreciate the response! Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
What i mean is I would prefer to give a sexual experience that is closer to a synesthetic performance than just a common intercourse; a connection that leads to sex rather than use it to dissipate a feeling. I like creativity and casual sex sounds boring to me if i dont have a connection at a level I'd like to connect with my so called partner, so I don't give much importance to my sexual instincts if we havent establish a connection. People are complicated and for me sex is just an alternative way to know them from another point of view. I do see it as deep and serious activity, but if theres no serious intention i personally dont want casual over organic.