There is this boy on a matrimonial website that my brother had contacted about 2 months ago. Back then, I was not managing my matri profile and was busy with my work. When my brother finally showed me this profile about 3 weeks back, I was smitten- to say the least. Then I asked my brother if he had had any communication with this boy in the past two months? My brother told me that this boy had "accepted" my profile when my brother sent an expression interest to him. But since my brother was not a paid member he could not initiate any conversation/messges as such with the boy. Soon after, the boy himself had dropped in a "hi" . It has been two months since his "hi"Recently, about a week ago my brother took up a paid membership, wrote back a "hey how r u" to this guy and asked him for birth details in order to get horoscopes matched (it is an Indian practice). The boy hasn't responded yet, because I am guessing he freaked out. Now, as a paid member, I am able to see this boy's email id on the website. I have been wondering whether I should email him? Or not? We are both in our mid-thirties, and well, in different countries, and belong to different nationalities. He is half Indian/half British and lives in london. Whereas I am Indian and live in Delhi.My family and I have no issues with a foreigner. But I am giving this information so it's easier for you to share some suggestions regarding how to go about this. Should I email him or wait for him to respond to my brother's message? (As in I have no right to be so impatient because I myself took two months to respond to respond!! ). Should I email this foreigner I saw on a matrimonial website? Also, please note that my own matrimonail profile on this site is wrtten by my parents and brother and it is this profile that the boy "accepted." My profile also has a couple of pictures of mine attached to it. So till now, his contact his exposure has been to all third parties--a profile written by someone else and messages by someone else- not by me directly.