Look, i can't speak for every ugly person in this sub, and there's probably someone uglier than me, but i think i need to answer this because i've posted here talking about how beautiful people in this sub turns to be suicide fuel for me.

I need you to understand that having BDD and being trully ugly is like having society picking up a list that you made about your issues and marking check on almost every item, so the perspective stops being someone thinking that he have some issues to someone who have this issues, was being rejected because of this issues, and need to accept that his life is going to be like that forever. I don't know how beautiful you are and idk if you ever got relationships and shit, but when comes to loneliness what really matters is having someone you can relate to, and when someone desperate needing to relate to another person comes to this sub and see beautiful people posting their images and talking about their issues, probably he's going to feel shitty. I'm not trying to defend that kind of gatekeeping, but you need to understand their point of view too.

This was my response to someone who said that i was discriminating beautiful people in this sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/BodyDysmorphia/comments/a49z9p/seeing_pretty_people_talking_about_bdd_makes_me/ebe7jq0?utm_source=reddit-android

And sorry for my shitty english, its not my native language.