Hey! 24 F here just chiming in to say I feel the same way -- questioning whether anybody (well any man) could ever find me desirable. The constant refrain here is that it's easy for girls but that's only true if you're the kind of girl that most guys are into. For example, I'm pre op trans (meaning yeah I have a D) so there goes 90 percent of straight guys right off the bat. And I also have a lazy eye, so even of the ten percent left many aren't going to be interested.

I totally get why guys don't want to date trans women - they don't want what I have going on downstairs and they probably don't want to take all of the shit that society will give them for dating a trans girl when they can just date a cis girl, but it's still frustrating.

I'm bi and women have always been pretty openly into me. maybe I should just accept that I'm not meant to be with guys.