For us men we were not really attractive to women on our earlier years because we were broke and all. We only became more attractive once our careers started taking off, late 20s, grew full beards, and the manly face set in, late 20s all happened in late 20s for me. Women had a headstart on me of 8 years because they were attractive to men of all ages from 18/20 and up. So I would be curious too, what was the catch there. It takes time for some men to grow out of their baby face. But a baby face never hampered a woman's chances to find a guy. Unless she used to be fat. I would really wonder. Sorry if it comes across as offensive but as a man I do see how dating is tilted in favor of women when we're young balances out mid late twenties then you hit 30 all of a sudden the same women who didn't give the time of the day in your 20s want you. How do you want us to just be blind to all of that as if our experience was a blur. Simply because it makes you feel uncomfortable...