I had someone who I repeatedly turned down at different parties at college until one night I had too much to drink at a party I knew she wasn't at, she showed up late and sober and she was able to force herself on me. I don't honestly even remember much, I texted her the next morning (she had insisted on putting her number in my phone) and asked if we used protection. We had, but I went and got tested for STD's anyway. I had my fraternity ban her from any future functions and after the tests came back with no STD's I kinda did my best to try not to think about it. It wasn't traumatizing for me, so it's not a big piece of my life or who I am, and I'd like to keep it that way