Let me preface by saying: when I was late teens/early 20s, I thought I wanted kids. I hadn't put much thought into it, but I was pretty Lifescript focused, so I figured kids were in my future.

My husband and I were high school sweethearts. We broke up for a while about 4 years in, but stayed friends/FWB. We were at a stage where we were thinking of getting back together when he told me he didn't want kids. I was a little taken aback because I'd talked about kids before and he'd never said anything. But after giving it some thought I realized that I didn't really want kids either.

For the longest time he felt bad because he thought I was giving up kids for him, but when he finally brought it up again I was like "oh hell no, I don't want kids, what you are smoking?" Haha!