There’s plenty of guys already who came of age in the 2010s reading the whole online feminist schtick of “women don’t want to be harassed by men out in public! Stop being creepy and approaching women!” who were fucked up by it.

This is 100% me. I was very on board with the "male feminist" thing in my early 20s. One of my biggest Ls that was being taken home by this girl I had a huge crush on at a non-profit I volunteered for, we were both very drunk from being at a party the non-profit had to celebrate a huge project. I refused to hook up with her because I said that we were both so drunk we couldn't consent to sex. She spent like ten minutes telling me it would be okay and I still refused, and after she realized I would 100% not fuck her she threw me out of her apartment and I had to find a way home on the verge of blacking out drunk at like 2am. I had spent months fantasizing about fucking her and thought she'd be willing to be like "we're drunk now, but come back when we're sober and lets try again" but nope lmfao. She was Jewish (in the "hot IDF soldier who could be a model" way) and had curves for days, haunts me to this day :(