going to delete this comment in 15 I was also sexually abused in my childhood. I also don't have attraction to minors. I agree with you completely. But I'm also working on forgiving my abuser. Because I know the internal struggle and guilt they're going through because we talked extensively. I just think instead of locking up pedos we should work on more rehabilitation and study their brain. It seems some countries (like Germany) are making headway in "curing" pedophilia. But for the most part we lock them up and hope their brain changes on its own somehow. Again, their crimes are terrible and the children effected have lifelong issues (like me). But I think pedos will be around forever if we don't work on serious rehabilitation.