You're right to your opinion but to break it down, by the time we returned each other's keys I had not seen him for 3 weeks. I'm not exaggerating when I say that. I had not seen my partner, who lives less than 20 minutes away from me, for 21 days. This wasn't by my choice but instead his. He chose to cancel our plans multiple times to hang out with his friends or do other things. After week one of not seeing each other, I did start to badger him about it. He didn't fix it and it didn't get better. If someone doesn't want to see me, I'm not going to force them to. If you read the original post, you would know he admitted that he was being selfish with his time and didn't think seeing me was a priority. I did my part and he didn't do his. I understand that relationships are not always 50/50, sometimes it's 90/10 or 70/30. I asked him if he needed time and space, and he said he didn't feel comfortable with me being strung along and in the dark because he didn't feel like he could give me, or our relationship, his time and effort right now.