I mean if they're going to know then too bad so sad, but in reality I bet a lot of people are hoping someone does something for this poor suffering creature. I get the feeling there's a long list of potential reporters for her to suspect. Act offended that she would accuse you and say you brought your concerns directly to her when you had them.

Shit like this is beyond not okay. People need to know when they're over their heads.

I have a senior dog. She's happy as shit. She peed on the floor this morning because her routine was severely disrupted and it confused her, but I cleaned it up (no carpet, thank god). She's healthy, just old and easily confused. She doesn't make a habit of peeing in the house, she just had an accident.

If she were flea infested I would give her flea meds. If she was too delicate for flea meds she would get a flea bath. Too delicate for a bath and no ability to improve she would be lovingly put down. Because normal people do not let animals suffer with no sign that there is a possibility to help them.

Normal people in normal situations clean up dog pee on their floor and help their dogs feel safe and happy in the end of life days. These people are neglecting a senior animal in its suffering, and they're making excuses to continue the neglect.