I hate a lot of the choices they made, their tendency to never really address problems but sweep them endlessly under the rug. My mother in particular I don't hate but have a lot of visceral disgust for at times because she takes absolutely no care of herself and has pretty much let herself waste away since I was a teenager and it's really coming to a head now as she's older and losing her marbles (in a way I think has been greatly exacerbated by how sedentary she's been). by association I probably have a lot of repressed anger towards my dad, (nevermind myself) for not "fixing" it. They have their better days but God the bad ones are rough and I don't really want to waste anymore of my life being attached to it.