Wow, that is a crazy experience you have had so far with AA. This is truly a community of sick people. Where only a portion of those who try mange recovery.

I’ve had girls hit in me early in sobriety and thankfully my sponsor gave me good advice. And it didn’t affect my long term recovery. So, not paying that stuff attention worked for me.

If you don’t have a lot of choices and you don’t have a sponsor, and need help with alcoholism and step work, I can guide on that. I most likely live in another country, so that would be the only intention.

How these people act and effect you might also be some Codependency stuff. Not totally sure on that.