I'm the dumper because he said I was his burden when I begged a minute out of his time. I'm the dumper because I tried so many times to work it out with him but failed because I am the only one fighting. I'm the dumper because of the many times my open arms would be met by his cold and indifferent shoulders. Despite all that, being aware of how much I got stomped on, I still fail miserably in the many times I attempted to move on because I am madly in love.

I reflected on my own actions and behaviors and after everything, I would still blame everything on me for why we didn't work out. Reading this comment actually made me blame myself again, that I didn't hold on much longer or that I was too needy. I understand if you're hurt or something but I don't think it's fair to take out your frustrations to strangers and trigger people like this - maybe unconsciously but you still did.