I find this funny because you've come to so many of your own conclusions about me. I'm not an anti, and I do not see sex as something people should be punished for.

I'm just sick of people thinking it's ok to be a completely shitty human. This has nothing to do with the woman, it has to do with the child. Maybe you don't see it often but I see children having fucked up lives because no one can provide for them. Bottom line is that the focus needs to be shifted toward the small human that didn't get a say in what life they came into. She and he both has sex, he finds out shes not childfree and wants to continue with the pregnancy and keep the child. It's both of their responsibility.

Again, if he didn't want anything like this and would want to "opt out" then maybe he needs to find the right partner next time. We blame these women but it's so easy to see it the light we live. But if a childfree man doesn't make that clear beforehand and sleeps with a women he knows before sex wants kids then it's his fault to. If a childfree man full well knows she wants to have kids sometime in life, but still sleeps with her because he wants to fuck then he's just as responsible.

Sorry for assuming you're a guy.