Having a huge dick is great for the woman, once she can finally take it without too much pain or any pain, and the guy learns to work it without bottoming out hard and will stop fucking once she's done. That shit pisses me off. I wanna fuck for a half hour or until I'm exhausted and cramp up... at very first it was like that, but, now she gets off a couple times and I have to force myself to finish or just be done with the session ...otherwise you over fuck the woman and she can't fuck for days or a week. That shit sucks. So it's a limiting factor, even with plenty of lube and foreplay. Even after a couple years.
Blowjobs are fairly useless with an average mouthed woman. Before it got huge I could get great head, but, that was long ago.
anal sex is a useless adventure... Me and the gf made it work sorta kinda after several months of stretching sessions and plugs... I still got too hard/ big for her to handle, like, I was stretching out her poor colon. Not recommended. Plus, for an intact penis, I don't think anal sex felt good at all compared to vaginal. Sure, anal sex is better than using your hand, but, vaginal sex is incomparably better than anal sex.
Affect performance... yeah... first several times I tried to have sex the condom killed my hard on within two minutes. Just chokes the poor guy to death. Mag XL, durex xxl. So I went around feeling like shit because I couldn't fuck and wasn't dumb enough to go bareback and risk having a kid. Then we got her on the pill and within a couple weeks was like, hey, apparently my dick is huge and hurts her. Like, fuck me I can't win. Then months go by and she's loving it and I'm happy, for a while.
main concern ?
The lack of satisfaction is really hard on our relationship. I can't get a decent blow job from my woman even though she tries and we've even stretched her mouth out quite a bit, it still isn't enough. Dental wax is fucking awesome, but, while it alleviates the issue of sharp teeth, it by no means "fixes" the issue of her not fitting me in there. If I had a million dollars I'd probably pay a surgeon to make her mouth able to fit me. When I fuck lately I feel like it's all for her satisfaction and I'm just trying to bust a nut as fast as I can. I feel like our relationship is on a long term decline, pretty much from the get go.
so, to recap, big dick = pleasure for the woman + complications
if I was a small guy with an unsatisfied wife / woman ... I'd just find a decent clean hung guy and have him fuck her retarded once a month