I dated a girl on and off for about 4-5 years.....at the end of our relationship we had leased an apartment together....During the 4-5 years we dated, I know 100% she cheated on me a total of 4 times. We did a lot of breaking up and getting back together....I always knew that when we had broke up she usually was with another guy, and I never put two and two together, realizing that we would conveniently split up right before she was publicly hanging with another dude. I was a little bitch, and never had the balls to call her out on her bullshit....Until the straw that broke the camels back...While we were living together she began cheating on me (physically and emotionally) with another woman (who was openly gay)....It first started with her admitting that they drunkenly kissed while at a pool with some friends.

This really upset me. I already had trust issues with her, for obvious reasons, but she assured me it meant nothing and was just for fun.....Me being anxious as fuck by being kept in the dark, I would start reading her texts between her and the other woman, while she was sleeping, or basically anytime I could get her phone unattended.....Looking back it's fucked up that I would invade her privacy, but I had to know...Sure enough, the texts were not appropriate for someone who was in another relationship. I never admitted to her what I saw because I felt like such a douche for looking through her phone (now looking back I definitely would have called her out, though), but we soon broke up after that.

She moved out without telling me one day, and I was unable to afford the rent to our apartment alone....She basically had her dad (she was 24 at the time) call me up and try to be tough, saying they would pay 2 more months of rent and then I was on my own....Though we both signed the lease. about halfway through the second month, I get a call from the office saying half of my rent had not been paid...So they basically just didn't pay, and didn't tell me....Leaving me to come up with $400 within a few days. FUck those people and fuck that relationship....FUcked me up so badly with trust issues. If you can believe it, this girl had slowly become an alcoholic as our relationship worsened. After the rent incident, I didn't talk or hear from her for a few years...Until she texts me saying she's in the 12 step program....blah blah blah...wants to make amends and meet up somewhere. Told her I would have to think about it (have a new girlfriend of 1 year at the time, 3 years now, whom I love very much)...Never responded after that and I haven't heard from her since, besides her adding me on facebook. Man...What a shitty fucking time in my life. Glad that's over....I learned a lot.