This is such a beautifully accurate description of the whirlwind of a relationship I had with an ENFP.

I originally came here to post the following article:

http://www.personality-central.com/ENFP-ENTP.html

but this is so much better..

The insane chemistry the adventures the endless conversations the jokes the innuendos the laughter and the sexual tension no, it never got boring. Exactly as described.. kindred spirits / soul mate thing

It's a fucked up thing to say but I never knew women in this light. I never knew such a creature could exist. it is a once in a lifetime thing.. I doubt I'll meet one again... but you never know... crazier things have happened...

Ultimately after years the F T difference is what did us in too.

Again, exactly as described. I maintained some distance while she craved closeness. I was misreading her feelings. She was misreading my reasons.
she was hurt. she felt abandoned. unloved. it still pains me to write this because nothing was further from the truth. I withdrew temporarily for other reasons. trying to get myself together. but she took it to the heart. and it grew cold. And just like you said, she reached the finish line while I still struggled to catch up. Looking back on our communication at the end, it's painfully crystal clear. but my bullheaded T side made me totally oblivious to it til it was too late

But the good was there. it was a once in a lifetime special thing.

if OP has a chance - give these write ups some serious thought. It's a foreign concept for us.. it's even tough to write on text.. but try to be extra sensitive to her state of feeling...

at the end of the day though, dive right in.. you're in for one hell of a ride.