My first encounter with my husband was great... but it was also not the best. The best was with another guy I met on grindr. He was hot, had a large dick (not necessary but it was fun to play with), a great ass, confidence yet was also super nice and considerate. I never went so far with another person to that point. I am very inexperienced still, but he was the best. Great kisser, great lover. One thing I've found is that I'm far more generous in the bedroom... I do all the work a lot of the time, no matter who I'm with, I'm always the most passionate and the one trying the hardest to get the other off. I never had someone try to get me off besides my husband and to be honest, he's bad at it. We're working on it though.