You’re getting downvoted bc you’re claiming most women (any women) do this. You are too immature to be having sex, it seems. Women who slow down a hookup but didn’t really want to slow down (first of all I don’t think that’s a thing & it’s super weird it repeatedly happens to you) if they didn’t want you to stop, they can easily start kissing you again, or moving their hands lower, or just say in the moment, “maybe we can go a little further.” It makes zero sense that they’d wait to confront you later, and angrily, that they wanted more. It’s very weird behavior that I’ve never heard of. If they wanted more from you, they’d wait until the next time you’re hooking up & not try to stop it again. The fact that you say this is happening frequently makes me wonder what you’re doing or not saying. Because I can assure you… no does mean no.

To suggest that a 50/50 split where the women are the people saying we do not want you to keep going when we say no, but you look at all the comments & think, but half of them are men who swear no really means yes…. Hmmmm…. I guess we’ll never know what women want….? I suggest you listen to the women. We do actually know what we want.

When a girl gives in after repeatedly saying no, that doesn’t mean she meant yes. It simply means she gave up the fight. This is usually something that happens very early on - like in the first few dates. She might like you & wants you to take her seriously as a potential girlfriend. She may like you enough to let you keep going bc you just won’t stop when asked & she doesn’t want to ruin things by being a bitch & kicking you off. But know that she didn’t want to sleep with you before knowing your last name. No didn’t mean yes…. and she will have regrets for allowing it to go too fast…. There will be a walk of shame & cruel irony that the guy who pressured her relentlessly will only call again when he wants sex, but not to date her…. He now thinks of her as a slut or too easy & doesn’t respect her enough to ever introduce her to mom & dad.

I promise you this is the scenario that’s actually happening with the assholes who keep going & going and then say, sometimes girls don’t want you to stop. Yes we do!!!!

As for your weird shit with girls yelling at you later when they could have heated things right back up… that’s so odd it’s hard to believe.