For OP and everyone else that is struggling to find a sword bearer, just be brave and try it. I'm speaking from personal experience. We run hard Crota 3 times a week. The first two times, we have different sword bearers, but the third time they would switch to alts, leaving us without experienced sword bearers. I was the only hunter left and they convinced me to try it. It is harder than normal, but all you need to learn the timing. Here are the most important things to know.
You don't have to be a hunter to kill Crota, but if you have more than one in your raid team and need multiple clears, it makes it easier if you split up the responsibility. You guys just need to be patient when learning and you'll get it. I took him down on my fourth try. Good luck!