That's fair. My tolerance is probably only that high because I don't really date very many people long-term, so when I do find one I like enough to stay with I'm willing to deal with some of the issues, as long as they're not completely awful.

I have actually seen changes, yes. Not always monumental but he's gotten better at communicating with me, letting me know what he's up to and asking about my day, all things I have had to ask for. But you're absolutely right; the resentment might be clouding my judgement, and making me talk about him like he's a worthless piece of shit. He's super loyal, super funny and sweet, has the most ambition of anyone I've ever met, we share all the same interests and hobbies, for the most part, and he's never once said an unkind word to me or not taken me seriously.

I feel like he could have ADD/ADHD. He's admitted that he might forget to text me back after going down a Wikipedia rabbit hole about some interesting historical tidbit. He could probably benefit from therapy or at the least a course on organization.