Wow, you've gotten some nutbar reactions. Please do not become a camgirl just to make a point (in the most passive-aggressive way ever conceived by humanity).

Now. Personally, I do think you're overreacting. But that doesn't matter; you have a right to your boundaries.

But how you broached this matters. As I just implied, I don't see how strip shows on the computer are different/worse than strip shows in clubs which you've given the OK to. And I don't think it's fair to presume that your husband would either.

So if you came at him like he was a knowing cheater, I can sort of understand him getting defensive. He deserves the benefit of the doubt on this, and to have your feelings explained to him like they're new information.

Again, though, if (or once) you've done that, he should respect your feelings and stop the behavior.